Further polish SQLite vendoring

- Now integrated with `make tags` for Emacs IDE features
- Delete some old deprecated broken full-text search engines
- Rename .h → .inc files that don't meet our definition of header
- Make sure every #include line is normal form so tools understand

See #162

third_party/sqlite3/memjournal.c

@@ -23,7 +23,7 @@
 ** in the common case, they are usually small and no file I/O needs to
 ** occur.
 */
-#include "third_party/sqlite3/sqliteInt.h"
+#include "third_party/sqlite3/sqliteInt.inc"
 /* clang-format off */
 
 /* Forward references to internal structures */